Simple Gifts

Day 3 and we are all doing ok. My kids were whining a little bit yesterday because they wanted to go to Target and spend their allowance and I told them they had to wait until October. We had a great discussion about finding happiness in places other than stuff. Family, friends, God. I don’t know if they were convinced but it’s a start.


I was in town running errands yesterday and really craving a cool iced latte. I was feeling sleepy and wanted to pick-me-up as well as a treat after tedium of errands. I love getting little treats for myself and the when we are out running around and I knew this was going to be one of the hardest things for all of us (except my husband Eric) to give up. I am proud to say that I survived my errands coffee free.

Also, I am on day three eating the same leftovers for lunch. We had a wonderful turkey bolognese sauce for dinner and there was so much leftover. I should have stuck it in the freezer but since I am not eating lunch out for September I thought it would make perfect lunches. Also, Eric usually comes home for lunch and helps out with leftovers. He has been in the field all week and taking his lunch so the bolognese was left to me. I am grumbling a little, but I am also grateful to have such a wonderful meal to eat for lunch. If we were not in 30 Days of Nothing we would eat it until we got bored with it, let it sit in the fridge until it got gross and then feed it to our dog if it was still canine edible or throw it out. What a waste. For this month at least, I am grateful for the meal and shamed by my casual ability to waste good food.

This has been a week filled with simple gifts. My husband unexpectedly brought home three crab that he caught and so we had a wonderful meal of crab melts last night without buying a single thing. I made the bread, Eric caught the crab, we ate tomatoes from our garden and the rest of the meal we had on hand.

On Tuesday I was preparing for my first Sunday wearing clergy robes when Matt told me that I needed a clergy cross to wear with my robes. I don’t have one and we went looking on-line. I saw one that I liked and Matt said – “I have that one and you can have it.” I didn’t have to buy anything, received a cross I love from a dear friend, and recycled a piece of jewelry that was unused!

Finally, a woman at church brought in boxes of ripe produce including avocados, bananas, and cilantro. Eric and I were already planning to use the second half of our crab to make crab quesadillas with avocado lime sauce and I was able to get free avocados. I scored some bananas too which my kids love to munch on. When they get too ripe they will go in the freezer so I can make Sam’s favorite muffin – chocolate banana muffins!

I wonder if I would have recognized these gifts if I were not clearing space in my life by consuming less. Perhaps I would have wanted a new cross instead of one passed on to me. I might have told Eric that I had not planned on crab and begrudgingly rearranged our menu instead of receiving the crab with joy. Maybe over-ripe avocados and bananas would have been passed by as useless to our family. So much already to give thanks for.